Am I the only one who thinks Buffy had incredibly selfish friends?

I felt the same way. I hated how xander and Willow treated her. She dies for you people and they acted as if they were all high and mighty. What really pissed me off is in season 7 when Dawn kicked her out of her own house? That COULDN'T have been me cause I would've been real quick to throw in I died to save you and your kicking me out of my house. Grrrr with friends like those who needs enemies